alienated child, helping alienated parents
I lived inside the lie -
and now I'm telling you what really happened
This is the place where alienated parents get answers.
For every alienated parent who’s been blamed, blocked, or rewritten into the villain — this is the truth you deserve.
I’m Ryan Thomas — an alienated child who lived inside the manipulation, believed the lies, and rejected a loving parent for years.
Now, I’m here to give you what no one ever gave my Dad: the truth behind the scenes… and the steps that make reconnection possible.
You’ve been painted as the problem. Cut out. Misunderstood. Left questioning your own worth.
That wasn’t failure — it was a trap you never saw coming.
Everything I create is designed to lift the weight off your shoulders, show you exactly what really happened, and help you rebuild the relationship you never should’ve lost.
This is your turning point — not because you’re starting over, but because you’re finally seeing the truth from the inside.
You weren’t to blame. You were the safe parent all along.
And now you have a path forward.
You deserve the truth that sets you free...WELCOME!
Everything THEY did to you is about to make sense.
The TELL - ALL book alienated parents have been waiting for...
Confessions of
an Alienated Child
an Alienated Child
Learn the truth your alienated child could never admit. Each real-life confession pulls you behind the silence, the lies, and the rejection you lived through...
And for the first time, you’ll finally hear the apologies, explanations, and truth you’ve deserved for years. Emotional. Honest. And deeply validating.
Discover the weapons of alienation
SABOTAGED!
See the hidden weapons that turned your child against you. SABOTAGED! Exposes the tactics, patterns, and psychological strategies alienators use to rewrite reality and destroy the relationship with your child.
Get a clear look at the alienator's playbook to program your child against you, to make sure they cut you out, destroy your self-worth, and stop communicating. This eye-opening book helps you know their tricks so you can beat them.
The Proof & Relief You Deserve...
It Was NEVER
Your Fault
Your Fault
Get the proof you’ve been searching for — you were never the problem. It Was NEVER Your Fault helps you stop replaying the arguments, blocked calls, and last words spoken… and finally understand why nothing you did could have changed what happened.
See how they set you up to fail, lied about you, made you disappear, and weaponized your grief — and why your reactions were human, justified, and rooted in love. This experience gives you the relief of knowing you were the safe parent all along.
Helping Alienated Parents Cope When Everyone Else is Celebrating
Holidays, Milestones & Events Package
Get the tools to survive the hardest days of the year — and make real progress. The Holidays, Milestones & Events Survival Package shows you exactly how to handle celebrations, traditions, and important moments when you’ve been cut out.
Learn what to say, when to reach out, how to send gifts the right way, and whether you should show up — or stay back. With a 7-day video series, book, workbook, and full audiobook, you’ll discover the #1 strategy to avoid mistakes, reduce pressure, and stay steady while everyone else is celebrating.
The Complete System to Reconnect
Get Them Back
Reconnect with your child without chasing, begging, or getting it wrong. Get Them Back gives you the words, strategies, and communication sequences that open the door again — even after months or years of silence.
It’s the communication roadmap alienated parents have never had — showing you exactly how to break through the lies, rebuild safety, and become the parent your child can finally return to.
Work with Ryan 1-1
Private Coaching Session
Work with Ryan one-on-one in a private Zoom session designed to give you clear, personalized guidance for your specific situation. This is your chance to share your story, get real answers, and walk away knowing exactly what to say, and do, and how to move forward with confidence. This 60 Minute session can be recorded for you, so you can rewatch the strategies, language, and next steps anytime you need them.
Understand Alienation from the Inside Out..
THE RYAN THOMAS SPEAKS CHANNEL
Real explanations, real strategies, real stories — so you can finally see what’s actually happening in alienation, how to respond in real-life situations, and why your child acts the way they do.
Myth-busting insights, behind-the-scenes truths, and parent success stories — all designed to give you clarity, confidence, and a way forward.
About Ryan Thomas
I was an alienated child for most of my life — including a ten-year period where I had zero contact with my dad. I rejected him completely, believed every lie, and truly thought he didn’t care.
Then in my late 20s, I saw the truth… and everything changed.
We reconnected. We rebuilt. And I finally understood what really happened behind the scenes.
That inside perspective — the manipulation, the pressure, the fear, the confusion — is what I now use to help alienated parents in more than 25 countries finally understand their child’s behavior and rebuild their relationship.
Today, I combine my lived experience with two decades of work in conflict-resolution, change psychology, and family communication.
My work has been featured by US News & World Report, Entrepreneur Magazine, ABC, MSNBC, FOX, iHeartRadio, and I’ve worked with organizations including Microsoft, The White House, Best Buy, Lockheed Martin, and more.
I’m the author of SABOTAGED! The Hidden Weapons of Parental Alienation, creator of It Was NEVER Your Fault, the Holidays, Milestones & Events Survival Program, and the creator of the signature Get Them Back program.
But at the heart of all of it is this: I lived inside the lie — and now I help you see the truth that sets you free.
