Training for Parents Who's Children are Drifting Away During & After Divorce...
Thousands of parents have subscribed to my email list over the past 7+ years… To get started, I want you to watch this step-by-step breakdown of real-life communication mistakes, and the words and phrases you should never use (they will surprise you.) And, how to anticipate what your child actually WANTS to hear.
Helping Parents in Over 25 Countries
Welcome, this is the place where we give you a behind-the-scenes perspective on what your child is going through and exactly what to say and do to reach them during and after a divorce.
I’m Ryan Thomas, an adult child of divorce and parental alienation and my goal is to help as many parents and families as I can.
We’ve worked with parents in over 25 countries with our real-life strategies. Our coaching programs are designed to meet you wherever you are on this journey. Whether you're at the initial stage of helping your child cope with the upheaval of divorce, ('Help Them Through'), facing a child who's becoming distant and you want to keep them close ('Keep Them Close'), or dealing with full-on rejection and need to help Get Them Back ('Get Them Back'), we have a roadmap for you. And for you, the parent, 'Life Beyond Hurt' is crafted to help you reclaim your emotional well-being, confidence, and identity.
While your attorney protects your legal rights, we focus on the daily interactions and communications that can help you save your relationship and help your child get through the most emotionally traumatizing even in their life.
We're here to help you every step of the way!
Guiding you at every stage of your journey...
I’ve developed step-by-step systems, communication methods and word-for-word strategies from my own personal experiences and helping thousands of parents save the relationship with their children...I'm excited to share them with you.
What are you dealing with?
I can help you right now if your child is...
…Angry and pulling away from you because of the divorce.
…Having behavioral issues and going down a bad path.
…Blaming you for every bad thing that is happening in their life.
…Being shown court documents and details to hurt you.
…Accusing you of abandoning them, taking all the money, and leaving them homeless.
…Made to believe false stories and lies about you.
…Acting out with aggression, name calling, swearing and throwing destructive tantrums.
…Denigrating anything you do or offer as stupid and worthless.
…Rejecting your gifts, phone calls, texts, or other communications.
…Refusing to show up for parenting time (or making the time miserable.)
…Pushing you and your family away. (Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, Friends)
…Holding you hostage with demands and ultimatums.
…Parroting the nasty words of your ex (and thinking they are their own beliefs.)
If you feel like everyone and everything is against you, and you don’t know how to turn things around, without making mistakes that can set you back years…I can help.
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SABOTAGED! The Weapons of Parental Alienation
Discover the exact strategies and tactics the alienator uses to program the child against you, ruin your influence, and remove other family and friends that could be loving influences. Plus, learn how and why your child can be easily manipulated into thinking that, “bad things happen when you are in their life.” Includes: Digital Copy of the Book, FREE Audiobook, & Video Training Courses.What Do Divorce Parents Need to Create Breakthroughs with Their Children
After helping parents in over 25 countries create breakthroughs with their children, I’ve build a step-by-step system that can deconstruct the alienation and help parents get their children back…while providing the most support they’ve ever had.
KNOWLEDGE
Understand the psychology of your child, how they think, how they have been manipulated, and how that impacts what the need from you.
STRATEGY
You must have a plan to follow, with the right actions, in the correct sequence to confidently know what you are doing each day to make progress.
COMMUNICATION
Knowing the exact words to use that will change your child's mind about you, avoid mistakes & create a lightbulb moment of discovery of who you really are.
GUIDANCE
The right people on your team who understand what you're going through, and can provide real-life advice and perspectives to make the changes you need.
MINDSET
You've experienced emotional trauma, and need support to rebuild your self-worth, confidence, and learn to trust yourself again as a parent to make progress.
COMMUNITY
You are not alone, you need to be surrounded by others on this journey who are working to repair their relationship and learn from what they're doing as well.
