For Attorneys: I help parents whose children are being turned against them during or after a high-conflict divorce. So as the legal process unfolds, we help them communicate to save the relationship without making mistakes.

I can help your client if the other parent is…

…disparaging your client

...refusing co-parenting attempts

…preventing or interrupting parenting time

…prohibiting involvement in the child’s life, and all decision-making

…blocking the child’s access to your client

I can help your client if their child is…

…Blaming them for every bad thing that is happening in their life.

…Being shown court documents and details to destroy the relationship.

…Accusing them of abandonment, taking all the money, or making them homeless.

…Being manipulated into believing false stories and lies.

…Acting out with aggression, name-calling, swearing, and throwing destructive tantrums.

…Denigrating anything they do as stupid and worthless.

…Rejecting their gifts, phone calls, texts, or other communications.

…Refusing to show up for parenting time (or making the time miserable.)

…Pushing their extended family away. (Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, Friends)

…Holding them hostage with demands and ultimatums. (Child is used as a weapon.)

…Parroting the nasty words of the other parent (and thinking they are their own beliefs.)

How We Help...Get Them Back
Get Them Back is a rejected parent’s personal navigation system to repair the broken relationship with their child. It’s the most reliable reconnecting system in the world, delivering heart-centered guidance to parents in over 25 countries. Our team of support includes multiple LIVE weekly coaching sessions to get personal guidance and advice on strategy, communication, emotion and mindset. Clients receive 24/7 access online training to learn our system and methods, with customized feedback and support so they have confidence to know exactly what to say and do to help save the relationship with their child.

How The Referral Process Works


Identify a Client in Need

Identify a client that's being rejected by their angry child during the legal process and who is having difficulties in their relationship.

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Your Client Contacts Us

They can consume our free resources, learn about our services, and submit an application to work with us.

We Personally Respond

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Dear Valued Client,

We are always looking for ways to further support you. I’m sending you the details of Ryan Thomas, he works with parents whose children are being turned against them during divorce. As we focus on the legal aspects, he may be a resource to help you communicate more effectively to help your relationship.

Here is a link to his website which includes some free resources and information on ways you can work together.


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About Ryan Thomas
I help alienated and rejected parents get their children back during and after divorce or custody battles, by showing them exactly what to say and do to save the relationship. While your attorney protects your legal rights, we focus on the daily interactions and communications that will determine whether you have a relationship or not when its over. I use my real-life experience of rejecting a parent for 2 decades, to share an inside perspective of exactly how to reach your child.

I bring over 20 years of experience in conflict-resolution, change management, leadership, relationship development and more and have extensive training as a Certified Conflict Management Coach, Solutions Based Counseling, Resilience Practitioner, and Certified in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.

Over the years I've helped high-profile, high-net-worth professionals and celebrities dealing with rejection, alienation or estrangement in over 25 countries. Throughout my career I’ve worked with influential leaders and established brands including, Microsoft, First Lady Michelle Obama, The White House, Academy Award-winning actor Martin Sheen, Matthew Perry, Lockheed Martin, Best Buy Mobile, American Heart Association, and the Make-A-Wish Foundation. Me and my work have been featured in US News & World Report, Entrepreneur Magazine, ABC, MSNBC, FOX, iHeart Radio & more.

I’m the author of SABOTAGED! The Weapons of Parental Alienation, Producer of the film Rejected to Accepted, host of Ryan Thomas TV and the Reconnect Podcast, and Founder of Get Them Back.