Get Them Back
Alienation is Real & I Know What You're Going Through.
This is for parents who’ve been blamed, blocked, and broken.
If you're here, you're probably exhausted — emotionally, mentally, spiritually.
You're being shut out by your own child, and no one around you really understands.
You're questioning yourself… wondering if you're doing the right things… and fearing you're running out of time.
I want you to hear me: You're not crazy. You're not the problem. And you're not alone.
This is alienation. And it’s real.
I know because I lived it. I was the child who was turned against a parent.
I believed the lies. I shut out love.
But I also found my way back — and it changed everything.
That’s why I created Get Them Back.
Not just to give you tools and strategies — but to give you the guidance, validation, and support that I know you’re craving. Because I’ve been on the other side. And I know how to help.
Ryan & Dad Reconnected after 10 years apart.
You've Been Blamed, Misunderstood & Shut Out..and Your Still Here!
That tells me everything I need to know about you!
You’re here because something inside you still believes this can be turned around.
And you’re right.
This Is About Getting Your Power Back
What I’ll give you isn’t a script. It’s not just information.
It’s a way back into your child’s heart — and a way back to yourself.
We’ll show you exactly how to speak, text, email, or re-engage in a way that breaks through the lies.
You’ll learn what to stop doing immediately — and what to do instead.
You’ll know what’s working, what’s not, and why.
And with Emotion Coach Jen by your side, you’ll get the emotional strength to stay grounded, steady, and unshakable — no matter how painful it gets.
You Don’t Need to Do This Alone Anymore
This program was built for parents like you — the ones who’ve tried everything and are still standing in the fight.
We only work with a small group at a time, because this isn’t about volume — it’s about transformation.
If this speaks to you… APPLY BELOW.
Get Them Back is a Perfect Fit If Your Child Is...
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Rejecting you — and has been for years, maybe even decades
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Blaming you for everything wrong in their life
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Repeating lies, court details, or twisted truths to hurt you
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Accusing you of abandoning them or ruining their life
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Acting out with anger, name-calling, or emotional outbursts
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Dismissing your gifts, calls, or messages as meaningless
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Refusing parenting time — or making every moment miserable
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Pushing away your entire family: grandparents, siblings, everyone
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Demanding money, gifts, or conditions just to engage
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Using your ex’s words as their own — even when they don’t mean them
If it feels like everything is stacked against you… and no one understands how bad it’s gotten… I want you to know this:
You’re not the problem. And you’re not alone.
ENROLLMENT BY APPLICATION ONLY
Here’s What You’ll Get Inside the Program
Total of 12 Weeks of Training & 6 Months of LIVE Personal Coaching
Once you’re accepted, you’ll get full access to the Get Them Back System — created by both a child of alienation (me, Ryan) and emotional healing coach Jen Ahana.
This is where personal experience meets a clear, step-by-step path forward.
8 Weeks of Strategy & Communication Training from Ryan
You’ll learn exactly what to say (and what not to) to create lightbulb moments with your child. Everything is designed to shift their mindset and re-open the door — even if they’ve blocked you completely.
8 Weeks of Emotional & Mindset Training from Jen
Alienation breaks more than the relationship — it breaks your confidence, your peace, your identity as a parent. Jen will help you release guilt, regulate your emotions, and show up as your strongest self — no matter what happens.
Scripts & Templates: To ensure you turn what you learn into actionable steps, you get access to a range of supporting materials. These resources will guide you from insight to action, helping you apply what you've learned in a concrete way.
LIVE Coaching & Personal Support (6 Months)
Live Coaching That’s Personal and Precise
You’ll receive 6 months of LIVE coaching, with two small-group calls every month — each one tailored to what you’re facing and what you need most.
- One call each month with Ryan (strategy, communication, real-time adjustments)
- One call each month with Jen (emotional strength, mindset, trauma recovery)
These are intimate coaching sessions, limited to only 10 parents at a time, so every participant gets personalized support on their specific situation.
Each call is driven by your real-life challenges and questions. You’ll be able to share exactly what’s going on — and we’ll coach you through what to say, how to respond, and how to stay grounded when emotions are running high.
And because you’ll have access to these calls for six months, you’ll have time to absorb the lessons, try things out, come back for support, and keep building momentum. This is long-term support, designed to help you grow and make progress at every stage of the journey.
6 Months of LIVE Communication Coaching Sessions with Ryan: Focused on your questions on strategy, communication, and real-time adjustments. Whether you’re drafting a message, handling rejection, or unsure what to say next — Ryan will help you map out the exact words and actions to take based on your situation.
6 Months of LIVE Emotion Coaching Sessions with Jen: Centered on your questions around emotional strength, mindset, and trauma recovery. These sessions give you the tools to regulate your emotions, stay calm under pressure, and rebuild your inner resilience so you can keep moving forward with strength.
GTB: Evolve (4) Weeks of Additional Training: Continue your progress after the 8 weeks together with an additional self-guided, (4) week training program, with over 16 bonus training videos and mini-courses. Creating a total of (12) weeks of training support.
Lifetime Access: Life is unpredictable, especially after a divorce and alienation. That's why you get lifetime access to all program materials, so you can revisit the course during different stages of your parenting journey. So, you're not just investing in a solution for now—you're securing a resource for the future challenges you might face.
Real Support. Real Attention.
We only work with a select number of parents at one time.
We only work with a small number of parents at once because we go deep.
We’re in this with you.
We read and respond to every application.
We coach every call ourselves.
And we care deeply about helping you reconnect in the most meaningful way possible.
We work with clients by
APPLICATION ONLY
Get Them Back is designed for parents who are serious about doing what it takes to reconnect — and want direct, long-term support from both Ryan and Jen.
Your application will be carefully reviewed to ensure this program is the right fit for your situation. We only accept parents we believe we can truly help — and whose circumstances align with the tools and strategies we provide.
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I'm Ryan Thomas a child of divorce giving you a behind-the-scenes look at how to reach your child.
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