Get Them Back
Alienation is Real &
I Know What You're Going Through.
This is for parents who’ve been blamed, blocked, and broken.
If you're here, you're probably exhausted — emotionally, mentally, spiritually.
You're being shut out by your own child, and no one around you really understands.
You're questioning yourself… wondering if you're doing the right things… and fearing you're running out of time.
I want you to hear me: You're not crazy. You're not the problem. And you're not alone.
This is alienation. And it’s real.
I know because I lived it. I was the child who was turned against a parent.
I believed the lies. I shut out love.
But I found my way back.
And now I help parents like you do the one thing that feels impossible:
Reconnect—without chasing, begging, or getting it wrong again.
That’s why I created Get Them Back.
Not just to give you strategies—
But to show you how to become the lighthouse they can’t ignore.
The one who holds the truth.
The one who stands ready,
for the moment they finally look back.
Ryan & Dad Reconnected after 10 years apart.
You've Been Blamed, Misunderstood & Shut Out..and Your Still Here!
That tells me everything I need to know about you!
You’re here because something inside you still believes this can be turned around.
And you’re right.
This Is About Getting Your Power Back
What I’ll give you isn’t a script. It’s not just information.
It’s a way back into your child’s heart — and a way back to yourself.
We’ll show you exactly how to speak, text, email, or re-engage in a way that breaks through the lies.
You’ll learn what to stop doing immediately — and what to do instead.
You’ll know what’s working, what’s not, and why.
And with Emotion Coach Jen by your side, you’ll get the emotional strength to stay grounded, steady, and unshakable — no matter how painful it gets.
You Don’t Need to Do This Alone Anymore
This program was built for parents like you — the ones who’ve tried everything and are still standing in the fight.
We only work with a small group at a time, because this isn’t about volume — it’s about transformation.
If this speaks to you… LEARN MORE HERE
Get Them Back is a Perfect Fit If Your Child Is...
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Rejecting you — and has been for years, maybe even decades
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Blaming you for everything wrong in their life
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Repeating lies, court details, or twisted truths to hurt you
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Accusing you of abandoning them or ruining their life
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Acting out with anger, name-calling, or emotional outbursts
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Dismissing your gifts, calls, or messages as meaningless
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Refusing parenting time — or making every moment miserable
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Pushing away your entire family: grandparents, siblings, everyone
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Demanding money, gifts, or conditions just to engage
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Using your ex’s words as their own — even when they don’t mean them
If it feels like everything is stacked against you… and no one understands how bad it’s gotten… I want you to know this:
You’re not the problem. And you’re not alone.
Want Help from Ryan?
You hold the real story - now learn how to share it.
Get Them Back is designed for parents who are serious about doing what it takes to reconnect — and want direct, long-term support from both Ryan and Jen.
Your application will be carefully reviewed to ensure this program is the right fit for your situation. We only accept parents we believe we can truly help — and whose circumstances align with the tools and strategies we provide.
Parents Sharing Their Experience...
Their stories reflect their individual journeys. Results are not guaranteed.
I'm Ryan Thomas a child of divorce giving you a behind-the-scenes look at how to reach your child.
What Do Divorce Parents Need to Create Breakthroughs with Their Children
After helping parents in over 25 countries create breakthroughs with their children, I’ve build a step-by-step system that can deconstruct the alienation and help parents get their children back…while providing the most support they’ve ever had.
